I met my wife 13 years ago in a band. She was the singer and I played the keys. After being bandmates, friends, and eventually live in partners we decided to get married in secret. Our wedding was at the court house in San Diego. Our wedding rings were $10 silver bands from Tijuana. Our post wedding meal consisted of homemade biscuits and gravy. It was a surprisingly romantic day, but I have always wanted to do more for her. This January (1/11/11) will be our 10th wedding anniversary.